Have you

Have you ever had one of 'those' arguments in your marriage that change the direction of your marriage? One of 'those' arguments that are heated, and at points sinful, but with a few moments of calm and prayerful thought you are able to slowly get beyond your feelings and to the source of the pain. One of 'those' arguments that when it has been said, and has been resolved, and you've been restored, that your marriage is better because of having had it.

Well, I have.

And I think that says it all.