Disclosure:
Okay, I need some advice from all of you whom/who....(i have no idea which one would be the correct usage but hey i never said i was an English major...lol) been where i am at. Please try not to criticize the stage that I'm at...it's real, and it hurts sometimes, i just need some advice....i'm not trying to throw a pity party, I have a lot to be thankful for.....just try to dig down and remember what its like. -Thanks
So, I'm young, I'm in love, and just about 1600 miles from the man that I'm in love with.
I am doing the best that i can at not waisting the time that i have here in Arkansas, focusing on being present with my friends and my church around me, my job, ect...Yet i ache to see him.
For the most part i do just fine, i get through my day and enjoy the few conversations that i get to have with him but then there are times, like today, when i remember how better it is to actually physically be near to him. Days when I miss him so greatly it's hard for me to get out of bed....now i just sound pathetic...lol..
So, how did you ladies get through your long time periods before seeing that man that just lights your world up...lol.
It's hard for me...because i know that I'll see him so very soon in only a few more weeks but 4 days at 6-8weeks at a time just doesn't seem like enough.
Then i try to refocus and i remind myself that I'm the blessed one there are plenty of women that have husbands and boyfriends in the forces that don't get to see or even talk to their significant other for longer periods of time...so I do remind myself to be thankful. and I am.
I just need some advice from all of you that remember what its like to be so close and yet so far away from the person that you love...
How did you get over/through your depressed days from missing that special someone?
4 comments:
I don't blame you. It would suck. Sort of...I mean, hate to go all Shakespeare on you but it is better to have loved and been 2000 miles apart than to have never have loved at all.
So you feel it. But then you are glad you feel it. And you remember it. Bottle it up. Make a monument to it.
So when he is driving you crazy when you actually live together you can remember how blue you were without him. : )
seriously. And it's not the same kind of depression...it has an eventual end. And a good one at that.
So there you go. That's my take on it.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
If it doesn't make it go wander, like Boss used to say.
: )
Thanks Vanessa,
That actually helped a lot.
Enjoy missing him....because at least you have him to miss.
My only advice is this: take time for yourself right now. Sure you miss him. And that's the way it should be. But this time is the only time when you can focus on yourself. What you want, how you want to grow, who you want to be friends with, what movie you want to see. Not that it's bad to share your life with someone, but that's what it will be like in the future. Sharing. Everything.
So enjoy these last few months (?) for you time.
:)
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